It can not be allowed to become acceptable. This is not what America should be striving to become. Girlfriend Fiancee. If you are still a girlfriend you therfore don’t deserve a cent. Tell him to define your relationship with him. Are you just a sister in the Lord, friend, best friend, casual friend, course mate, colleague at work. Some guys are indecisive. They don’t know what they want. They keep you occupied with their presence while stretching their neck to find another lady yet won’t allow other guys come close to you!