So I kicked him out of the house and told him I wanted a divorce. But then he came groveling back to me. I wasn’t having a bar of it at first – I was hurting so badly and felt so humiliated.
One night, when I agreed he could come over and we could talk everything through, I got upset and blurted out a lie. I told him while hed been having an affair, I had also been having an affair but I had ended it recently. He looked devastated and couldn’t believe it. He left, looking quite heartbroken, but I didn’t care.
Why did I lie? I guess I wanted him to feel the same kind of hurt and betrayal that I was feeling.