They are often insensitive to your feelings, but they feel ACUTELY sensitive to any slights, criticisms, of even subtle negative behaviours towards them. The person expects everyone else to cater to their needs, where they want to go, what they want to do, their schedule, etc.
They often discuss people in terms of comparisons – for example, “she is so much better looking than her husband” or “you’re so much more fun than my friend, Sara”
The person is very status conscious and will rank people, places and things in terms of a status hierarchy, where their goal is to always be at the top. The higher a person’s status ranking, the more they like them. They may define status in terms of things like: wealth, beauty, intelligence, a person’s social network, connections, career, or any other status category that matters to them.