You see a horribly dirty car and somebody cleans it methodically, or a patio with covered with leaves and somebody sweeps it, your mind demands a condition and that condition is met and is satisfying. Crazy people don’t under asmr and are quick to judge. Some do use it to sexualize but most do not. If people want to sexualize ASMR, they’ll do it. If they want to sexualize feet, they’ll do it. I don’t know how some people can do it cause asmr makes me angry and extremely uncomfortable. I guess that’s the misophonia in me but I can’t stand it.